Time, Money, or Health: Why You Can’t Have All Three (Yet)

Akash Sehrawat

< 1 min read | Jul 22, 2026

Wheel of Life framework for balanced living

 

A grandfather was having dinner with his son and grandson.

 

During the meal, the grandson asked:

 

“Grandfather, what is the most important lesson about life?”

 

The grandfather smiled and said:

 

“My dear, broadly speaking, there are three things every human being needs: time, money, and health.

 

When you are young, you have plenty of time and good health—but no money.

 

When you are in your 40s, you start earning money, but time becomes scarce, and health may begin to decline.

 

And when you reach your 60s and 70s, you may have time and financial stability but often, health is no longer what it used to be.”

 

He paused and said:

 

“Work hard and earn money, but never forget to give time to yourself and your loved ones. And above all, never neglect your health. Because without health, nothing else truly matters.”

 

You can watch the video on youtube

 

 

The Wheel of Life: A Framework for Life Balance

 

To maintain balance between health, wealth, and time, you need a structured way to evaluate your life.

 

This is where the Wheel of Life framework comes in.

 

It divides life into five key areas:

 

1. Work (Career & Finances)

 

● Business or job

 

● Financial stability

 

● Material possessions

 

2. Health (Physical & Mental Wellbeing)

 

● Green zone health status

 

● Physical fitness and aesthetics

 

● Strength and functionality

 

3. Relationships

 

● Family

 

● Friends

 

● Colleagues or employees

 

4. Spirituality

 

● Values (Yamas & Niyamas)

 

● Meditation or mantra practices

 

● Religion or belief systems

 

5. Hobbies & Personal Growth

 

● Travel

 

● Skill development

 

● Activities that bring joy

 

Personal growth becomes much easier when all areas of life are moving in the right direction.

 

Each of these areas is like a spoke in a wheel.

 

If even one area is weak, the wheel cannot move smoothly.

The Scaling Method: How to Measure Your Life

 

To make this framework practical, you must evaluate yourself honestly.

 

Rate each area of your life from 1 to 10.

 

Life Rating Scale Explained

 

1 – Very Poor: Crisis mode, urgent attention needed

 

2 – Poor: Acknowledged but inconsistent effort

 

3 – Weak: No clear system or direction

 

4 – Below Average: Awareness exists, but no results

 

5 – Average: Functional but far from optimal

 

6 – Good: Stable and no longer stressful

 

7 – Very Good: Consistent and disciplined

 

8 – Excellent: High level of mastery

 

9 – World-Class: Elite performance built over years

 

10 – Mastery: Rare, exceptional, long-term excellence

 

Understanding Skill Growth (The 0 to 10 Journey)

 

When you begin learning a new skill, progress can be surprisingly fast.

 

Let me share a personal example.

 

At the age of 40, I bought my first motorcycle. Within six months, I went from a 1/10 beginner to a 6/10 rider.

 

Why?

 

Because of my strong ‘why.’

 

After an injury prevented me from working out, I needed something that brought excitement, challenge, and adventure.

 

Motorcycling:

 

 ● pushed me outside my comfort zone

 

● helped me explore nature

 

● gave me purpose and joy

 

Within six months, I completed the Spiti Valley circuit, one of the most demanding routes in India.

 

Since then, I’ve covered over 20,000 kilometers and completed multiple adventure rides.

 

The Power of Your ‘Why’

 

Progress happens faster when your purpose is clear.

 

When your ‘why’ is strong:

 

● you stay consistent

 

● you invest time and energy

 

● you overcome discomfort

 

The 7/10 Rule: When a Skill Becomes Serious

 

 

Here’s an important principle:

 

The moment you go beyond 7/10 in any skill, you are taking it seriously.

 

That means:

 

● more time commitment

 

● disciplined practice

 

● long-term focus

 

Below 7 → Hobby

 

Above 7 → Serious pursuit

 

Above 8 → Potential profession

 

For me, motorcycling stays at 7/10 because it is a hobby not my profession.

 

Mastery and Its Cost (8/10 and Beyond)

 

Reaching 8 or 9 out of 10 requires:

 

● years of deliberate practice

 

● intense focus

 

● consistent effort beyond comfort

 

At this level:

 

● the skill becomes part of your identity

 

● your lifestyle revolves around it

 

● you pursue excellence, not just enjoyment

 

However, mastery comes with a cost—it demands time, energy, and sacrifice.

Career From Your Skill

 

Here is a crucial truth:

 

Only at 8/10 or above can you build a strong career or income from a skill.

 

In today’s competitive world:

 

● everyone creates content

 

● everyone shares information

 

But only those with depth, authenticity, and mastery stand out.

 

When you are truly skilled:

 

● people trust you

 

● trust leads to commitment

 

● commitment leads to income

 

Excellence is the ultimate marketing strategy.

 

The Biggest Life Mistake: Trying to Balance Everything at Once

 

Here is the reality:

 

At any given phase of life, you can focus on only one or two areas deeply.

 

Trying to optimize everything at once leads to burnout and imbalance.

 

Learning how to prioritize life correctly is one of the most important self improvement skills.

 

Many people struggle with work life balance because they try to improve every area of life at the same time.

 

But creating a balanced life is really about understanding your current priorities, improving weak areas step by step, and maintaining what already works.

 

How to Prioritize Your Life (Practical Examples)

 

Example 1: Rohan

 

● Work: 8/10

 

● Health: 4/10

 

● Relationships: 5/10

 

The smart decision:

 

Focus on improving health and relationships until they reach at least 6/10.

 

Because if health declines, everything else will eventually suffer.

 

Example 2: Nisha

 

● Health: 7/10

 

● Work: 3/10

 

The right strategy:

 

Maintain health habits and focus on career growth.

 

Because financial stress will eventually impact health.

 

Your life priorities will naturally change during different phases of life, and that’s completely normal.

 

 

The Golden Rule of Life Balance

 

Neglect in one area always spills into others.

 

That’s why balance is not about perfection.

 

It’s about strategic prioritization.

 

A Simple 4-Step Action Plan

 

1. Rate yourself honestly in all five areas

 

2. Identify 1–2 areas below 5/10

 

3. Prioritize improving those areas

 

4. Maintain the rest

 

Maintenance means doing enough to avoid regression.

 

There is no wisdom in improving one area from 6 to 8 while another falls from 7 to 3.

 

Final Thoughts: Life Is a Balancing Act

 

Very few people achieve perfect balance across:

 

● health

 

● relationships

 

● career

 

● personal growth

 

But with awareness and honest self-reflection, you can move closer to balance one phase at a time.

 

Remember:

 

● Focus on what matters most right now

 

● Improve step by step

 

● Maintain what is already working

 

Real self improvement is not about doing everything perfectly; it’s about improving the areas of life that matter most right now.

 

That is how a fulfilling life is built.

 

Thank you for your time.

Stay healthy, stay fabulous

Frequently Asked Questions

 

1. What is the Wheel of Life framework?

 

The Wheel of Life is a life balance framework that helps you evaluate key areas like health, career, relationships, spirituality, and personal growth to identify where improvement is needed.

 

2. Why is balancing health, wealth, and time so difficult?

 

At different stages of life, one area often improves while another declines. Many people gain money but lose time or health, making balance one of life’s biggest challenges.

 

3. How can I create a better work-life balance?

 

Start by identifying which areas of life are suffering most. Focus on improving one or two weak areas while maintaining the rest instead of trying to optimize everything at once.

 

4. Why is health important for long-term success?

 

Without good physical and mental health, it becomes difficult to enjoy money, relationships, or personal achievements. Health supports every other area of life.

 

5. What does the 1 to 10 life rating scale mean?

 

The scale helps measure your current progress in different life areas:

 

  • 1–3 = struggling

 

  • 4–6 = average or stable

 

  • 7–10 = high performance or mastery

 

It creates awareness and helps prioritize growth.

 

6. What is the importance of having a strong ‘why’?

 

A strong purpose increases consistency, motivation, and long-term commitment. When your ‘why’ is clear, personal growth becomes easier and more meaningful.

 

7. Can hobbies improve mental health and life balance?

 

Yes. Hobbies reduce stress, improve happiness, create purpose, and help maintain emotional balance outside of work and responsibilities.

 

8. Why does trying to improve everything at once lead to burnout?

 

Spreading your energy across too many goals often creates stress and inconsistency. Strategic prioritization helps you make steady progress without exhaustion.

 

9. How do I know which area of life to prioritize first?

 

Focus on the areas below 5/10 that are creating the most stress or negatively affecting the rest of your life. Improving weak foundations creates overall stability.

 

10. What is the best way to improve life balance?

 

Use this simple approach:

 

      1. Rate your life honestly

 

      2. Identify weak areas

 

     3. Focus on improving 1–2 priorities

 

     4. Maintain the rest consistently

 

Small improvements over time create long-term balance.

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About Akash Sehrawat

Akash is a creator of 25+ programs and certificate courses in which more than 200,000 students have enrolled both on Udemy and Fabulous Body's native platform. Akash is also an author of three books that can be found on Amazon. His answers on Quora have gathered more than 12 million views in less than a year.

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